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Lesson Learnt:"Circumstances doesn't control a man,men are in control of how circumstances affects them"-Elias Titus
As bad as my circumstances seemed to me at that point of time,the brutal truth is that im to be blamed for letting all of it to affect me.I allowed what was happening at home to affect me in my studies and life.We are the one in control of our destinies.It boils down to the choices we make in life,what we choose is what affects us not the environment,people or circumstances.A person born into a abusive family can either choose to grow up to be whatever his/her parents is like or choose to be the opposite and be the most caring person around.Its all up to us so don't make the mistake of letting your situation,environment,people etc to control you.
To say something like"but i was born into a family and my parents abuses me so i've grown into an abusive parent myself" is nothing but excuses,to shift the blame from oneself onto someone or thing,to play the victim role which people are good at so we feel better of ourselves.Yes,circumstances,environment,people etc can influence us but the truth is that we have to power to choose,we choose whether it affects us or not.Be responsible for yourself for noone else is.



To be continued.......what again?.....